You are my person

I know that we have been through a lot together and i thank God that even today we are still standing. Since 2009 you have been my person even though we have been far apart from each other because we study in the different universities, and you call it Unisa friendship, which makes me smile when ever i think about the nick name you gave us due to the distance. Our friendship is solid even the distance cannot keep us apart. One of the things that makes our unisa friendship special it is because whenever i return home during school holiday, the distance since like it was never been there, sometimes if feels like we have been seeing each other everyday . The bond that we have is in separable, you are my person and i am yours. I am so grateful to be your person because you know me better than anyone else, you have been a true friend to me.

They say keep the secret to yourself because your best friend also have another best friend, which means you can share my secrets with your other best friend but since the journey that you and i have been wondering through i always trusted you with all my secrets because i am your person and i adore you . Thank you for everything,

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for always being there. This Unisa friendship hope it will last forever.



My love for you!

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Our special love started 3 years ago , it was early January I still recall the dates, because it was my little sister birthday , 22 January 2016 and since that day my love for you continue to flow like a river. It was like a striking thunderstorm that’s what i call my love for you because it strikes at an unexpected moment and whenever i remember how it start it sent the butterfly in my tummy. Me and you we are so different but we share similar dreams and that what makes our love so great, we have come across so many challenges together and we never give up to one another. You have been there for me through it all. My love for you is pure and i would like to believe that i have found my soul mate, my heart desire and that our love is our infinity . I love you so much. You being part of my life means the world to me, without you i wont die but i would be miserable and lonely. You are the puzzle that i have been logging for. I am so grateful and proud because you helped me to shape myself to be the women i am today and the women i can be tomorrow.

Building a relationship with you, without knowing where it is taking us, it is the journey that I would never regret to travel again. You are my best friend, you Know thing’s about me that no one knows. you make me feel beautiful in a way that no one has ever made me. you are not perfect nor i am but we are perfect together. My love for you has grown in such a way that sometimes words can not express the amount of it. My love for you is irreplaceable and my love for you is unconditional, there are no words that can describe how much i love you.

Your Time Is Limited.

Don’t waste it living someone else life and don’t let the noise of other people opinion drawn your own inner voice. Guys lets me tell you people will have an opinion about your life every single day and they will change their minds about you every single day, but if you allow people perception about who you are, define who you are and your destine, you have lost  the battle. The reality is, that if you allow people perception, they are going to derail you from finding your purpose in the future so that you can connect your dotes! because you listen to the noise, you allow the noise, you allow the gallery to consume you and your conciseness. You are forgetting your own destine, how to fight you battle without losing, how to find your own purpose without minding what other people might say about you, because at the end of the day its your time and it is your life that is on the line.

I control my destiny.

Things has be hectic but am glad that am back. I miss you guy and i have something that might cheer you up, am back on my site and i have dedicated my time on writing.

A lot has been going on, I completed my public relations work integrated learning and am a graduate now.Am so excited and i know that  its just a beginning on of my journey. There is a lot to share as i was doing a part time job as a social media marketer, and thing were good but am looking for something more challenging ,and am willing to explore and learn more, as they say there is so much to learn in things world .

wish you a wonderful spring!

Love you all.

Appreciate everyone that enter into your life

“There is a purpose for everyone you meet. Some people will test you, some will use you, some will bring out the best in you, but everyone will teach you something about yourself. Both positive and negative relationships teach you valuable lessons. The road to self-discovery requires help from others. As humans we are always seeking feedback and approval from others. That is how we learn and become better. No relationship is a waste of time. The wrong ones teach you the lessons that prepare you for the right ones. Appreciate everyone that enters your life because they are contributing to your growth and happiness. “

John Geiger

Fear of being rejected

“I’d say that the feeling of being unremarkable is tied to loneliness by the fear of rejection. When I feel unremarkable I don’t have the interest nor confidence in meeting people because I feel like I have nothing to offer to them and therefore they might reject my presence, which leaves me lonely. Loneliness genuinely hurts, I don’t think it’s a masquerade. We are biologically made to be social beings. We are all attention-seekers. We all need attention to fulfill this biological necessity to be and feel present; to verify that we’re really here; that we matter; that we are remarkable in some way. 


To be honest you cant please anyone in this world everyone has their own agenda.You can try and you can try some more but, there is no pleasing people. Well at least not completely. Especially those who cannot wait to witness your downfall. There are people, more than you think, who are patiently waiting for you to stumble. They are quietly sitting at a corner watching your every move and anticipating the slightest slip. People can’t wait to see you slip or fall their are just waiting for that moment to say “what do you think you are’ better than us” . People have a tendency to smile at us while they are smiling for the opposite reason not for you to excel but for you to fail.

You have to decide to focus on you and your path. Invest your time in improving you and pleasing yourself first before anyone else. When you are content with your path, your growth and the point at which you find yourself, it is extremely hard for people to penetrate through your confidence and self-worth. No matter how many times you fall or how many times you have failed.

Invest your energy on looking ahead and finding ways to get up and keep going. Falling and failing are very natural; it is the essence of growth and improvement. You are not perfect and neither are the people so curiously honing into your life. Just focus on pleasing you and see the the result. in this life you cant go on and on pleasing other deserve the best and dont let anyone makes you think otherwise.

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you are worth it.

I dont believe in that saying that you should prove yourself how worth you are. i believe that am worth what it takes to be this universe people do so love to take advantage of other people and treat them as slave or their door mate but let me tell you my brother or sister you are worth it and you worth more than that.

LOVE YOURSELF, APPRECIATE WHO YOU ARE  because that what God made you to is too short to worry about what other individuals see you. Be grateful…. dont let people get you,